What happens if you no longer fancy most men because they alter their body hair?

Yes, it's another blog about body hair but this is my first. I really, really hate trimmed pubes or waxed bottoms (not to mention chests) on guys. Puts me off totally, and this is all I encounter these days. I'm 39, good-looking, single and up for fun, but I feel like my sex-life is hereafter confined to watching 1970s porn films (whose stars would never have dreamed of pubic topiary). I know it sounds silly but I need to talk about this and mostly can't to friends. I never realised I had a bush fetish until it started to disappear maybe ten years ago - hair down there used to be a nice, normal part of the package on grown men. Why has this changed, and what are we all trying to look like, lads? Get a hairy boyfriend, I've been told, but I dated a guy last year who said letting his body hair grow wild made him feel unsexy. Maybe airing all this online is pointless, as I'd prefer to march up and down Oxford Street wearing sandwich boards that read 'I want a man, not a picnic area'...What happens if you no longer fancy most men because they alter their body hair?
Sorry, but your post made me laugh, your prose is picturesque, inspired.


I think if you found True Love it wouldn't matter what the bush style was, if you were truly loved in return, the bush would be adapted to please you.


Don't give up.


Start a Natural Pubes club, there might be others with the same likes/dislikes.


Whatever, good luck and thanks for the laugh.


PS. I'm not keen on the decorative shaving in your 'picnic area' either, but have attended to the odd wandering strand when wearing a swimsuit!What happens if you no longer fancy most men because they alter their body hair?
Daniel, being one of the more mature people on here, you should surely have realised that what is outside, is outside, and it's what the person has to offer from the inside that counts.


Surely respect, a sense of humour, decent personality, honesty and similar likes and dislikes are more important than a shaved or waxed chest and butt.


They are superficial, its the inside feelings that count, well for me anyways.


Mike t.
I am sure there is a market out there somewere for what you want. You are not alone. You just have to find a way of finding likeminded people. How about advertising for people who like it 'natural'? What about certain magazines that cater for hairy people? Look on the internet, I am sure ther are people who share your tastes. Good luck.
you should grow up. at 39 i would expect you to have a little more depth. body hair is superficial - what's beneath it is not. if you no longer fancy a man because he trims or waxes, you have serious issues and are likely never to be satisfied.
awww you poor love :p *hugs*





i'm pretty sure if you look hard enough online there must be groups or something for this kind of thing, good luck hun xx





the sandwich boards could be an interesting idea though!





www.outeverywhere.com/tags/bear.html (didnt actually click but it seems promising!)
I would suggest subscribing to ';Colt';





And if you're ever in Birmingham, call into the Fountain Bar.
May I suggest that you start looking for the Bear section of the Gay community.